Kids and Grandparents: Christmas Memories

As Christmas nears, I think back through the years of Christmas past,  to the point of remembering the old movie “It’s a Wonderful Life”.  At that point, I have decided I must be becoming very senile or something. The Christmas season involves family traditions that are past down from generation to generation. As each generation marries and starts a family a little of the tradition changes as two individuals join together to become one.

When I was a little girl, my grandparents would come for the night on Christmas Eve. My mother would spend all day cooking a wonderful Christmas Eve meal for the family. My brother and I could hardly remember eating because of our anticipation of what came after we finished eating. We usually ate early in the evening with everyone pitching in to help clean up afterwards. Finally, we would gather around the tree, and pass out our Christmas gifts to be slowly opened one at a time. Santa delivered his gifts during the night. So everyone had to be in bed early. Not only did we rise early for Santa on Christmas morning, but we had  another custom our family followed every year. Christmas morning we left for the deer lease for a week of hiking, camping, and family time together. These are some of the best family memories I have from those oh so many years ago.

After I married,  it took several years before another tradition was formed. By this time, I had my first child. On Christmas Eve my parents and my brother and his family came to my house for dinner. Only instead of doing all the cooking like my mother, everyone pitched in and brought part of the meal. And just like in the past, we exchanged Christmas presents with each other. Of course, Christmas morning, my daughter eagerly awoke to find Santa’s arrival. Later in the day, we would go to my husband’s family to spend Christmas Day with them.

Now that I am the grandparent, time has changed again. This year for the second time, we are going to my daughter’s home. There is one small problem in that her husband has to work Christmas Eve and Christmas Day because he is a police officer; therefore, we are going to celebrate on the 23rd. Kristy and Joey have 2 children. My other daughter, Kourtney and Jerrod, will be there with their six children of which one is only one week old on that day. Kristy is continuing the tradition of cooking the majority of our Christmas dinner with everyone else bringing the extra dishes. After our wonderful dinner, our beautiful grandchildren will be rushing us all to sit around the tree to begin ‘playing Santa Claus’ by passing out all the gifts, which the grandchildren will open one at a time as we watch. The only difference is that they will have to wait for Christmas Eve for Santa Claus!

On the 24th I’m taking my mother to my brother’s home for dinner and gift exchange with him. We use to do it together until my family began to grow. Our other daughter, Missy and Bill and 2 grandsons, had Christmas with us early because she has gone to San Diego to her in-laws. This will be the first 24th and 25th that I am not with any of my grandchildren for one reason or another. I guess I have just entered a new era in my life of possibly visiting the local movie theater on Christmas Day!!!

 

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Child Development: Stages of Educational Toys

Boys Playing with the Metropolis Train Set

With the Christmas season fast approaching, I begin to wonder about what to buy my grandchildren. Christmas is the time that I usually buy them toys to play with during the year. Walk through any toy store and you see walls and walls of toys that are loud, toys that require batteries, have flashing lights, or that look like your child’s favorite movie character. Many of the boy’s toys have swords, bayonets, and guns to simulate wartime and violence. But what about those of us who want to raise children with imagination and curiosity? Toys are the tools children use in play; and play is the way they practice growing up. Toys can be divided into several groups, depending on the part of the child it helps to develop.

  • Toys for physical or muscle development such as wagons, bikes, or boxes, puzzles, blocks, brooms, and shovels.
  • Toys for sensory (touch, sight, sound, taste, smell) development such as water toys, musical instruments, bubbles, play dough and sand toys.
  • Toys for make-believe and social development such as dolls, dress-up clothes, cars, trucks, games, and books.
  • Toys for creative and intellectual development such as clay, crayons, paints, books, paper, and scissors.

Children need a balance of toys from each of these groups to ensure their whole development. (The Creativity Institute, Inc, 2010) Children need to have direct experience with the world in order to make sense of and learn about it. They learn about people and the world. They learn all these things by playing with toys.

 

I have been concerned in the past about the number of Chinese toys containing excessive amounts of lead entering the United States. Fortunately, Congress responded with the Consumer Product Safety Improvement Act. The three-year-old law did not merely stabilize the CPSC by providing funding to build up the lab capacity and surveillance presence at ports. It increased the agency’s authority to issue civil penalties against those responsible for toxic toys and other dangerous products. And it also required makers of certain products aimed at children to first send those products to independent laboratories for safety testing. Products that are new as of August 14, 2011 will have to comply with the stricter lead standard of 100 parts per million. Older products have to meet only a standard of 300ppm. (U.S. Politics Today, Getting the Lead Out: Protecting Children From Dangerous Toys, September 2, 2011)

Nursery Rhyme Revolving Bookcase

 

Knowing that CPSC makes sure we have safer toys, I choose toys for my grandchildren by thinking about their ages and interests. Infants are interested in looking at toys, touching them with their hands and mouth, fitting pieces of things together and making sense of their worlds.  I try to choose toys for them to look at, feel, chew on, hold, and drop.  Infants like push and pull toys as they begin to crawl and walk.  Appropriate infants toys include: rattles, squeak toys, blocks, crib mobiles, stacking toys and rings, push-pull toys, stuffed animals or dolls, nested boxes or cups, books with rhymes, simple picture books, noise making toys, small soft toys for throwing, strings of beads, and music making toys. Babyiture offers a Push Along Play Cartthat puts a tracking maze, a play xylophone, and a shape sorter all together into one adorable toy that is made of solid wood. On top of all of that, kids get to push it around from room to room as they play!

Push Along Cart

Toddlers are active and enjoy climbing, running, and jumping. They need toys to meet these needs. They also are interested in doing things with their hands as the small muscles in their fingers become more developed. However, toys for this age group should be simple and require little coordination. During this period, toddlers become interested in playing with others and in imitating grown-up activities. Toys like dress-up clothes are great for this! Toddlers also are interested in sensory materials such as paint, play dough, crayons, and chalk. One of the best ways to allow them to be creative is with an easel. Babyiture has a Child’s Easel with all the fun features of a regular easel, but takes up much less space. Give this to any young artist and they’ll be thanking you as they get hard to work on their next masterpiece. It has a chalkboard surface on one side and a dry erase surface on the flip side. Wooden strips hold the paper in place and it includes two plastic paint cups and an eraser. The easel folds for storage.

Child's Easel

 

Preschool age children are interested in active physical play. They have more control of their muscles at this age and this can be seen in the move from a tricycle to a two-wheel bike. They enjoy realistic toys such as farm and animal sets, grocery store prop boxes, model cars, and trains. As hand coordination increases, so does the child’s interest in simple construction sets and more difficult puzzles. Some children at this age also are busy learning to read and write, give them play equipment that encourages these interests.

 

Early school age children start collections or hobbies. Toys occupy less time for this age group because children spend more and more time playing with friends in groups. Early school age children start to show more awareness of what girls and boys are supposed to do. Girls may play with dolls as ‘babies’ and pretend they are doing real housekeeping. The Uptown Espresso Kitchen provides girls the opportunity to play house with all the features that mom has available to her.  Often boys enjoy electric trains and construction sets. This is the age of active games, such as ball games, biking, hiking with the group.

Uptown Espresso Kitchen

 

No matter what the age, no house can have enough books. Children need to be read to from the day they are conceived all the way through their years in school. I always buy each grandchild a couple of new books each year for every occasion to add to his library. A mix of fiction and non-fiction is very important in a home. I bought them their own special chair, Time to Read Rocker, to sit in while reading. It has a Special Message: Time to Read Backrest that includes a working clock to keep track of little one’s reading time  (Uses 1 AA battery – not included) and a charming poem on the seat back: Once upon a Time I took a look and found my world was full of books Now I love to sit and read each chapter Rocking and Reading HAPPILY EVER AFTER . The chair comes with a comfy, removable padded seat cushion and includes a sturdy attached rack to keep books up and off of the floor. By choosing the right books, the right toys, I can nurture creativity in my grandchildren; offering them the tools for success in life.

Time To Read

 

 

 

 

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Kids & Grandparents on Vacation

Sea World Of Texas in San Antonio

I often hear people make the comment “if I had known grandchildren could be so grand, I would have had them first.” But what makes grandchildren different from our own children? Why do we consider them ‘grand’? For those of you with grandchildren, you probably would agree that there is a difference in your everyday expectations of your grandchildren today compared to your children when they were at that age. Our grandchildren usually spend a limited amount of time with us before returning to their parents; therefore, we are not responsible for the day in, day out, daily care and pressure of rearing a child. When our children were young, we were so busy with day to day affairs of a job, family, and home life; there seemed very little time enjoy life together. But with our precious grandchildren, we laugh, play, and explore the world when given the opportunity; because we have finally slowed down in life ourselves.

After spending two days with three of my grandchildren, ages 2 to 8, at Sea World in San Antonio,  I have some of the best memories to last a life time. This destination provides opportunities for all ages to relax and enjoy. Between the shows that were entertaining for the young and the young at heart, the animals, the rides, and all the water features allowing us to stay cool, we stayed busy from the time the park opened until it closed. Sea World provides multiple resting spots throughout the park for grownups to relax while the children play or the two year old to take a nap. The funniest sight I perceived while in the park were strollers of all kinds being used to carry all the belongings instead of the children!!! Following are a few suggestions you might consider if you are planning a trip to Sea World.

While in the park….

Feeding Time With Seals

Make time for feeding times: Meal time is the best time to meet some playful Atlantic bottlenose dolphins and California sea lions, who you can feed by hand at designated times throughout the day. Stop by in the morning to check the day’s schedule, then give yourself some extra time to get a great spot right at the water’s edge. They are very playful and will come up to your hand.

See what goes on behind-the-scenes: Up-close tours like our Behind the Scenes and Ultimate Seafari Tour times aren’t listed on the park map, so they’re easy to miss. An insider’s tip? Book online ahead of time, or stop by the tour desk just inside the Main Entrance on the right.

Head to Sesame Street Bay of Play:This enclosed area is just for kids and a great place to let them burn off a little energy. Plus, there are plenty of shady spots for parents and a special play area just for toddlers. There are cabannas that can be rented for the day in this central area of the park, which is great if you have toddlers. It serves as the hub for the rest of the park. We went over to the Lazy River to float around I don’t know how many times. But the grandchildren loved it and so did I.

Water Play Park

Beat the heat: Temperatures can get quite high, especially in the middle of the day. Plan to take in these “cool places” when the thermometer rises: Shamu Theater, Penguin Encounter®, Sharks/The Coral Reef, and Nautilus Amphitheater. The new ‘Azul‘ show is awesome. We sat through it twice, because I couldn’t watch everything at one time. Don’t miss this one.

Pay once and dine all day: With the All-Day Dining Deal, purchase your meal tickets at one time and get a wristband that allows you to go through the restaurant lines as many times as you’d like that day. An Adult is $29.95 plus tax and Children 3-9 are $15.95 plus tax. Children under 3 may share with an Adult. Purchase in the park at any Ticket Booth, the Animal Connections Reservation Center, or Guest Services. Also, check into the Dine with Shamu. This is an up close experience with Shamu that children get to ask as many questions of the trainers that they want, while serving up an excellent buffet meal on linen table cloths. I was impressed by all the food that we purchased within the park. It was very good, with some excellent healthy choices, such as turkey croissants, turkey wraps, fruit, taco salads, fajita salads, pizza, pasta, grilled chicken, and barbeque. Large cups of ice water are free just by asking for it.

Dining with Shamu

Remember the kid in you: Don’t be surprised if you find yourself choked up in the presence of Shamu. Or, your arms covered with goose bumps in 85 degree weather as your hand touches a dolphin. There’s an incredible connection between humans and animals, one we celebrate here every day. Take a few deep breaths and drink in when you feel the connection move through you, and you’ll carry the feeling home with you.

Sea World of San Antonio surprised me by the quality of family vacation it provided for a family stretching in age from barely two to over 60. We all enjoyed ourselves without becoming overtired or cranky, making it a very relaxing, enjoyable family vacation.

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